Now that you have decided you are open to dating again, two things have gone wrong, or maybe more than two things have gone wrong. You have realized how you are no longer who you thought you were, you are older now. Though they say the older the wine, the more exotic it is, it is not the same with the human body. You don’t look like you looked when you were younger. Your appetite and dispositions have aged with you.

This whole dating thing sounds very strange. On the one hand you want to find someone you could spend the rest of your days with, but on the other hand the idea of actually spending the rest of your days with someone becomes or begins to feel like an impossibility or something you are truly afraid of. How do we make all those decisions? How do we handle our
finances? So many questions and very little answer. Another problem is that the world and the people that live in it are not like it used to be in the past. For some reason, in the past it was easier to find those who were single. We knew where the good ones were, we knew how to find them, we knew where their families were, but it is not just the same these days.